Wild and free? Or at least wannabe wild and free? If you could paint a picture of yourself as single, how rich and colourful would that picture be if you had all the colours of the rainbow at your disposal? This blog theme, Single Life, will give you plenty of tips and ideas on how to plunge into the world of dating on your own terms and achieving both mental and physical wellbeing.
The (R)evolution for Love singles blog does not shy away from taboos and we will always scratch beneath the surface. The reason for this is because our minds are governed 95 percent by our subconscious and unconscious mind – including when we are single – leading us either towards matches made in heaven or in hell!
This article gives an overview of the most popular singles blog articles under the various themes relevant to single life. They will give you answers to questions that are probably bugging you this minute, such as:
- You are newly single and the previous break up still on your mind or your ex is making your single life difficult.
- You've been single for a long time.
- You'd love to date someone but don't know where and how to start looking for a date.
- You would like someone to have sex with to spruce up your life.
- You're dating with serious intentions all your dates have proved hopeless.
- You are single and having a secret affair with someone who's already taken.
- You're wondering if an open relationship could be your thing.
- You are trying to decide between staying single or embarking on a long-distance relationship.
- You're keeping an open mind towards new opportunities to grow as a person and to live a more fulfilling single life!
A blog for singles with a zest for life!
Let the (R)evolution for Love inspire you and give you tools to build a single life for yourself that you will feel happy living! This singles blog includes thoughts about dating, which regrettably many of those who are newly single will find a scary prospect. One of my interviewees for the book The (R)evolution for Love said:
"What if I never find another partner and I end up growing old alone?”
If you are newly single and feel apprehensive about dating, the (R)evolution for Love singles blog is just for you. These blog articles will give answers to questions such as How to write a good dating app profile and what pictures to post? or Where and how to find company that’s just right for you?
Are you newly single or going through a break up and moving towards a single life that is more genuinely you...?
The book The (R)evolution for Love extensively discusses single life after breaking up. What should you consider when breaking up? When and how should you introduce your new partner to your children or your ex? How do you know you are ready for a new relationship if the break up is quite recent?
The best thing is always to process your break up thoroughly before you launch into a tirade of your painful past on your first Tinder date. Here is how one of my interviewees for the book The (R)evolution for Love described a date gone wrong:
“It was awkward and sad to listen to my date going on and on about their ex when we were lying in bed after having sex. I could only think of two things: had they been thinking about their ex all this time and how can I get rid of this person politely but right now? A new date is not the right person to listen to all your sorrows. That’s a therapist’s job.”
Are you considering a long-distance or an open relationship?
This singles blog also explores the pros and cons of different types of relationships. Read, for example, the blog articles about open and long-distance relationships:
How to Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work?
Having a problematic long distance relationship? How to make a long distance relationship work during lockdown?
Open relationship – just an option among many others?
What is an open relationship? What could we all learn from them? Do people in open relationships not experience jealousy?
Single and in a secret relationship? The (R)evolution for Love singles blog tackles even the most difficult of issues with the aim of helping all singles live their best single life.
If you are single but having an affair with a married person, these blogs could shed some light on the theme of secret affairs and cheating from the perspectives of all those involved:
INFIDELITY and the collected excuses: The good reasons for cheating
CHEATING: What is a good reason to cheat? What do the cheated partner, “the other woman/man” or the cheater choose to believe in?
CHEATING: One night stand. Secret affair. The other woman.
In this blog on cheating you will get tips and peer support for moving towards a permanently better life when you have been or are cheating.
If you feel jealous of your secret lover or feel uncomfortable because they are, read these articles:
THE JEALOUS TYPE: Am I too jealous?
“I feel so jealous because of my partner” Jealousy is a painful feeling. Use the power of your subconscious and let go of jealousy!
PATHOLOGICAL JEALOUSY – How much jealousy is too much?
Am I too jealous? What is pathological jealousy? What causes jealousy? Narcissism, jealousy and breaking up.
The (R)evolution for Love singles blog understands what it’s like to be single, including those times when being single is no fun at all…
What if being single again only fills you with fear and angst?
What to do if you want a relationship but really don’t see yourself going on Tinder or any other dating app or website…?
How is it to be single? What are you going to do once you are on your own?
What if being alone is stressful and social media gives you the creeps?
Read life-affirming blog posts about better single life, such as these:
Stress Management: 10 Tips How to Prevent & Reduce Symptoms
How to prevent, manage and reduce stress in a busy life? Causes and symptoms of stress, and good tips for stress management and wellbeing.
When positive thinking becomes toxic
What is too positive thinking like? Where should we focus the power of our mind and our willpower?
How to improve self-esteem through social media?
What is good self-esteem? How to improve your self-esteem through social media? 7 steps to help you improve self-esteem!
Conscious grieving can dramatically improve wellbeing
What is grieving based on humane, genuinely positive thinking like? How do you practice conscious grieving?
This singles blog gives tips on self-development focusing on solutions so that you, too, can live a more rewarding single life!
If you are looking for the blog for singles, go directly to the blog articles by clicking the above articles or to the blog theme menu for the blog Single Life. If you are interested in self-development and the power of the subconscious and the unconscious mind, read these blog articles:
Why does our conscious mind question the power of the unconscious mind?
Is the power of the unconscious mind fake news and is trying to harness it to achieve our full potential a waste of time? What do we mean by the unconscious mind?
How to improve your wellbeing through self-development?
Science has revealed: some adults are not mentally sufficiently developed. How to improve your wellbeing through self-development?
These were the themes you will find in the singles blog. The other (R)evolution for Love blog themes are:
Good relationship:
What is a good, happy relationship? How to improve your relationship and sex life? If you are in a long relationship and it sometimes feels like you’ve run out of things to say and, with that, run out of sex, how to learn how to talk and show affection in a more fulfilling way than ever? Or how to find a new, balanced relationship where daily life is not a chore and sex is good? Read more under the Good Relationship theme!
To Break Up or Not to Break Up?
The theme To Break Up or Not to Break Up helps you to come to a decision whether or not to end your relationship and stop sitting on the fence. If your relationship makes you uncomfortable, is it worth staying together or would it be best to break up, read more under the To Break Up or Not to Break Up theme.
Cheating:
One night stand. Or two. A secret affair. Another woman. A third wheel. You name it… Whether it was your partner or you who cheated, read our tips and benefit from the peer support so that you can follow your heart towards a better life after cheating. Read more under the Cheating theme.
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Wellbeing:
How to boost your wellbeing in a relationship or as a single? Rediscover your joy and peace of mind under the Wellbeing theme!
After the Break Up:
How to survive the break up? How to enjoy life when the break up process is still ongoing and your ex is giving you hell? What is life like after the break up? How to get peer support in the middle of a break up? Learn to face you ex with dignity and respect after the break up even if towards the end your relationship you hated each other more than anything in the world. Chances are that once the break up is done and dusted, they longer have the power to irritate you and they may turn into a better friend you ever thought possible. Read more under the After Break Up theme.
Books & publications:
Peer support and exercises in The (R)evolution for Love: A Better Relationship or a Brilliant Break Up? A relationship guide with a positive approach towards reaching a decision: whether it is to work on improving your relationship or to start the break up process.
Motivating You to mindshifting in many ways,
Your Coach Kati Niemi
Clinical Hypnotherapist, NLP Trainer, M.Sc.
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How to improve your wellbeing through self-development?
Science has revealed: some adults are not mentally sufficiently developed. How to improve your wellbeing through self-development?
Why does our conscious mind question the power of the unconscious mind?
Is the power of the unconscious mind fake news and is trying to harness it to achieve our full potential a waste of time? What do we mean by the unconscious mind?
INFIDELITY and the collected excuses: The good reasons for cheating
CHEATING: What is a good reason to cheat? What do the cheated partner, “the other woman/man” or the cheater choose to believe in?
What is an open relationship? Does it lead to breaking up?
What is an open relationship? Who are non-monogamous open relationships for? Is your partner suggesting consensual non-monogamy?
Narcissism in a Relationship: “How to Know if My Partner Is a Narcissist?”
What are the signs and causes of narcissism? Can you make a relationship with a narcissist work? Can you heal a narcissistic partner?
Aromatherapy for Libido & Romance – The Best Essential Oils for Love
Sense of smell influences our sexual desire and performance. Aromatherapy tips and the best essential oils for romance, libido, sex and love.
When positive thinking becomes toxic
What is too positive thinking like? Where should we focus the power of our mind and our willpower?
TO BREAK UP OR NOT TO BREAK UP? Should I stay or should I go?
How do you know if you should leave or not. How to make the decision to break up or to improve your relationship? To break up or not?
