In the Good Relationship theme, we will discuss what makes for a happy relationship and how to improve your relationship. This article has linked to the most popular relationship articles in the (R)evolution for Love blog in which we can explore the following aspects:
- What makes a relationship a good one on all levels?
- Does a successful relationship necessarily involve good sex?
- Can you have a happy relationship without sex?
- Can an open relationship thrive and what does it require from the partners?
- How to improve your sex life in a relationship?
- How to improve your relationship in general?
- Should jealousy be a part of a relationship? What type of jealousy is normal?
- Can a relationship be saved after cheating?
- Can a relationship that has been on the brink of a break up for years still be saved?
- Where to find a new relationship if your previous one hit the rocks and you are looking for a new love in your life?
- Can your relationship work if one of you has kids and one doesn't?
- Can you make a long-distance relationship work?
- How to have a relationship in a blended family or if an ex is being difficult?
- How to write a dating app profile when looking for a new relationship?
- What are the best dating apps and where else could I meet someone new?
- If my partner and I choose to break up now am I already too old to find a new one?
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A relationship should increase both physical and mental wellbeing
It is true that our physique and psyche are inseparably connected through the brain and the peripheral nervous system. The articles in the Good Relationship theme talk about how to improve your overall wellbeing in a balanced, happy relationship. We will also talk about the problem areas in relationships – always in a solution-centred manner with a better relationship as our goal.
“Good sex, happier self”: A relationship – even an open one- add to our physical and mental wellbeing
Let’s cut the chase and begin with what we are all thinking about anyway: good sex in a relationship 🙂
If you are in a long relationship and it sometimes feels like you’ve run out of things to say and, with that, run out of sex, how to learn how to talk and show affection like you never have before?
Why do partners with incompatible sex drives blame each other?
Why doesn’t my partner want to have sex? What to do if my lack of interest in sex is a problem? How can I have a higher sex drive?
Could secret affairs and one night stands inject some life into a long relationship? Cheating is not part of a fine relationship. The blog theme Cheating concentrates on cheating from the perspective of the cheater and the cheated, without forgetting the other woman or man, the third wheel.
However, if both partners want to agree on having an open relationship, this can make the relationship better.
You can’t own love, even when it’s handed to you on a silver platter. An open relationship can be a key to a much better relationship but it also takes a lot of mutual trust.
Is an open relationship free of jealousy? Can it improve your relationship?
Is an open relationship free of jealousy? Can jealousy ever be a part of a nice relationship? How to be rid of excessive jealousy?
What is an open relationship? Does it lead to breaking up?
What is an open relationship? Who are non-monogamous open relationships for? Is your partner suggesting consensual non-monogamy?
“We have a nice relationship but something isn’t right” – how to improve your relationship?
Stress and sleeplessness can rob any relationship of a happy vibe. Relationship problems are not always your partner’s or your own fault or your ability to be happy together. Instead, relationship problems can be largely due to the extra weight of life we carry around. We may be working, studying, raising our kids and looking after elderly parents all at the same time, and these will add an extra baggage that we should not leave unattended for too long.
How to improve your relationship that is on the brink of a breakdown?
Even the best of relationship can end up in a situation where breaking up is a real alternative. The blog articles under To Break Up or Not talks about making a relationship decision while the theme After Breakup, the new post-relationship life is discussed. What the happy single life and successful dating could be like is discussed under the blog theme Single Life.
SIGNS OF A BREAK UP: How to tell if my partner is going to leave me?
What are the typical signs of a breakup? How to spot the signals of an imminent separation or divorce? Is my partner going to leave me?
How to find a new relationship?
Or how to find a new, relationship that is balanced and good in all aspects, when daily life is not a chore and the sex is great?
Wellbeing is a combination of physical and mental factors and a relationship should nurture both sides on many levels. However, what those levels are, depend on one’s own, individual evaluations of what is important in life. A new relationship can be found when you have made it clear to yourself what makes you happy. Before you even think about a new relationship and start wanting to fall in love with someone, it is a good idea to learn to love yourself and to live a good life true to your own values on as many levels as possible – that is, a happy life.
IMPROVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP: Tips for a better relationship
10 tips for improving your relationship – Here’s how to make an already good relationship permanently better
Read the posting about good single life under the blog theme Single Life and find inspiration for looking after your personal wellbeing under the Wellbeing theme.
But if you are happy in your own skin and are longing for a new loved one to share your life with, how and where do you find a good, new relationship? Because a relationship is rebuilt every moment by you, by both of your, so relationships do not really exist anywhere to be found. You build one with a partner candidate that seems a right match for your life.
Inspiration for finding such partner candidates can be found, for example, in the following in-depth discussions as well as my book, The (R)evolution for Love
When a relationship no longer feels good:
To Break Up or Not to Break Up?
The theme To Break Up or Not to Break Up helps you to come to a decision whether or not to end your relationship and stop sitting on the fence. If your relationship makes you uncomfortable, is it worth staying together or would it be best to break up.
Cheating in a relationship:
One night stand. Or two. Secret affairs, another woman, a third wheel. You name it… Whether it was your partner or you who cheated, read our tips and benefit from the peer support so that you can follow your heart towards a better life after cheating. Read more under the Cheating theme.
Wellbeing in a relationship and as single:
How to boost your wellbeing in a relationship or as a single? Rediscover your joy and peace of mind under the Wellbeing theme!
Improving wellbeing: How to feel better mentally and physically?
The power of the subconscious: Improving your wellbeing on all levels when in a relationship, during a break up and as happily single.
The end of a relationship: After the Break Up
How to survive the break up? How to enjoy life when the break up process is still ongoing and your ex is giving you hell? What is life like after the break up? Do you need to get peer support in the middle of a break up? Learn to face you ex with dignity and respect after the break up even if towards the end your relationship you hated each other more than anything in the world. Chances are that once the break up is done and dusted, they longer have the power to irritate you and they may turn into a better friend you ever thought possible. Read more under the After Break Up theme.
Joyful and simply great single life:
Wild and free? Or at least wannabe wild and free? What is single life like? What are you going to do once you are on your own? How about if being single again only fills you with angst? Do you want a relationship but really don’t see yourself going on Tinder or any other dating app or website? Read my life-affirming blog on single life here!
Books & publications:
Peer support and exercises in book The (R)evolution for Love: A Better Relationship or a Brilliant Break Up? A relationship guide with a positive approach towards reaching a decision: whether it is to work on improving your relationship or to start the break up process.
Motivating You to mindshifting in many ways,
Your Coach Kati Niemi
Clinical Hypnotherapist, NLP Trainer, M.Sc.
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How to improve your wellbeing through self-development?
Science has revealed: some adults are not mentally sufficiently developed. How to improve your wellbeing through self-development?
Why does our conscious mind question the power of the unconscious mind?
Is the power of the unconscious mind fake news and is trying to harness it to achieve our full potential a waste of time? What do we mean by the unconscious mind?
INFIDELITY and the collected excuses: The good reasons for cheating
CHEATING: What is a good reason to cheat? What do the cheated partner, “the other woman/man” or the cheater choose to believe in?
What is an open relationship? Does it lead to breaking up?
What is an open relationship? Who are non-monogamous open relationships for? Is your partner suggesting consensual non-monogamy?
Narcissism in a Relationship: “How to Know if My Partner Is a Narcissist?”
What are the signs and causes of narcissism? Can you make a relationship with a narcissist work? Can you heal a narcissistic partner?
Aromatherapy for Libido & Romance – The Best Essential Oils for Love
Sense of smell influences our sexual desire and performance. Aromatherapy tips and the best essential oils for romance, libido, sex and love.
When positive thinking becomes toxic
What is too positive thinking like? Where should we focus the power of our mind and our willpower?
TO BREAK UP OR NOT TO BREAK UP? Should I stay or should I go?
How do you know if you should leave or not. How to make the decision to break up or to improve your relationship? To break up or not?
